This is Coy Mathis, a transgender 6 year old living in Colorado. It just so happens that my brother is in her class at Eagleside Elementary School in Fountain, Colorado. When I asked my brother how he felt about Coy he said, “She’s got really cool hair and we play on the slides at recess.” I asked what he thought about Coy’s decision to be a girl and he said, “She is a girl. She just got the wrong body on accident.” How is a 6 year old more understanding and accepting of her than many of the adults at Eagleside Elementary?
i just cried a little. beautiful. if only we could all have the mindset of a child when it comes to gender.
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[FIXED] The Missing Link: Gender Orientation
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LGBTQ* Theory Books (You May Want) To Know
- Queer Theory, Gender Theory - Riki Wilchins
- Feminism is Queer: The Intimate Connection between Queer and Feminist Theory - Mimi Marinucci
Mad for Foucault: Rethinking the Foundations of Queer Theory (Gender and Culture) - Lynne Huffer
- Gender Trouble: Feminism and the Subversion of Identity - Judith Butler
Queer Indigenous Studies: Critical Interventions in Theory, Politics, and Literature (First Peoples: New Directions in Indigenous Studies) - Qwo-Li Driskill (Editor), Chris Finley (Editor), Brian Joseph Gilley (Editor), Scott Lauria Morgensen (Editor)
Please Select Your Gender: From the Invention of Hysteria to the Democratizing of Transgenderism - Patricia Gherovici
Queer Cowboys: And Other Erotic Male Friendships in Nineteenth-Century American Literature - Chris Packard
Aberrations In Black: Toward A Queer Of Color Critique (Critical American Studies) - Roderick A. Ferguson
- Queer Girls in Class (Counterpoints: Studies in the Postmodern Theory of Education) - Lori Horvitz
Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation - Kate Bornstein (Author), S. Bear Bergman (Author)
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Julia Serano | Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity (2007)
^the reason this blog exists^
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Gender Identity
things irrelevant to gender identity:
- your genitalia
- how you dress
- your mannerisms
- your interests and hobbies
- with whom you associate yourself
- your attitude
- your romantic and/or sexual preferences (or lack thereof)
- your personal values
- your gender presentation
- et cetera
things relevant to gender identity:
- gender identity
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thank you very much
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guys I need your help.
I’m making this t-shirt and I don’t know if the he/him/his should be on the front or back and if ask about my pronoun preference should be on the front or back.
help meeee.This is a great idea for those who are having issues with people messing up on their pronouns!
I like it with the ‘Ask About My Pronoun Preference’ on the front….
To anyone who is confused about their gender identity,
“Identity is fantastic. Confusion is wonderful. Questions are amazing. If you’re confused about who you are, if you’re identity isn’t what you once thought it was, if you’re questioning everything you once felt sound in, GOOD FOR YOU. Your mind, from this experience, has officially been opened farther than most of the people around you. From this point on, you have a realm of thinking that most people you encounter everyday don’t even know exists. You are privy to a glorious, marvelous world of people that are caring, accepting, and kind. You have broken the shell into a world of individuals who accept you for YOU.”
f we can agree that…
- our current model of understanding sex in a “two-sex binary model” is a social construction that followed a “one-sex model”.
- sex is constructed, insofar as gender is constructed, and we gender sex. Or, characteristics that we “sex” as “male” or “female” are actually genderings of the body. Or, we consider vaginas to be “female” because we gender them as “female”, not because vaginas are essentially female.
- male and female are not essential, opposing, mutually exclusive categories.
- bodies exist outside of binary male/female categories.
- bodies exist within binary male/female categories that challenge our understandings of those categories.
…why do we insist on language that places everything back within a male/female two-sex binary model?
Why is it that we acknowledge the problems and limitations of a two-sex model, and yet are forced to re-enter it when discussing the gendered experiences of bodies?
The question that I have is:
How can we construct sex, and the language that we use to describe it, in a way that is not based in essentialist binary categories? That moves beyond the idea of a “spectrum” with male and female rooted firmly on opposing ends? That frees us from having to describe intersex people as “between” sexes, or transsexual people as moving “across” sexes? That eliminates the dichotomy between trans* and cis bodies? That is more than male, female, and “indeterminate”? And that finally stops us from having to make vast assumptions about the bodies and experiences of “male” and “female” people?
This is about more than intersex, trans*, and genderqueer people knocking on the doors on the binary begging to be let in, or at the very least, “included”. This is about more than challenging cissexist assumptions of what “male” and “female” bodies look like. This is about understanding that the two-sex binary model is an inadequate means of describing the realities of sexed bodies. And about recognizing that it is imperative that a new way of understanding and describing sexed bodies needs to be created.Submitted by: http://gypsydavy.tumblr.com/
I feel like this can start a lot of good discussion
Mulan drinking game on the couch with housemates.
Do you know how often they say honor and ancestor? Because it’s a lot and that’s when we have to drink, also when they question or reinforce gender roles. This is going to be a long hour and a half. Lol, but so fun.
Don’t understand why this has not yet been a part of my life but be prepared to recreate it with my Southside friends.
I MUST MAKE MY FRIENDS DO THIS WITH ME SOON!

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